Get over it

Every day we live our life. It may go by fast, and it may go by slow. But in reality its the way we live it that counts. Everyone has things in life that are hard, and may take sometime to get through, but that's why we have friends. To help us through them. To be there when we want to talk, to just listen and to be there to give us advice when they have gone through it too. But not to be there to empathize us.

We  usually don't try to throw a pity party, unless we are hungry for attention. But that just means you need a hobby. When we have a problem and write or talk about it, it makes us feel better when either we figure out how to get out of it or someone gives us an idea. We love responses and appreciate all of them, but sometimes when someone else tells us that they went through it too, it doesn't help us in anyway. We'll accept what they say. But it's no use to us.

When someone responds to something we have a problem with, they have to realize that they need to think about what they say before they actually say it. And when we don't thank them whole halfheartedly for their response, it doesn't automatically mean we didn't appreciate it even a little. It just means that it wasn't what we needed to hear.

It isn't fair when you write about your feelings, the feelings you are sharing with the world, and someone responds, and when you give them an answer that they aren't satisfied with, that they immediately judge you. It makes them an asshole. Because they may have gone through what you have, but they may have had help, and instead of giving you advice they just told you they went through it too. That's not helpful and they have no right to get pissed because you may not have been completely happy with their answer.

People need to stop being selfish and full of them selves, and expect everyone to like what they say. When someone asks for responses on what they have to say, weather they are mean or nice, they don't say that they will love them to death. And people giving responses need to realize that. Instead of being hypocritical, pety little brats, they need to accept that what they wrote may not have been the most helpful, and when the person they wrote to doesn't give you and huge thank you, you need to look at the responses you give them when they respond to your writing.

Just something to think about.

 With all my love, tweak.